Today I was asked to say a few words at my friend Bear Barton's memorial service. Here are the thoughts that I shared.
It has been my privilege to be a friend of Bear’s for almost
15 years. As I thought back over the
time I knew him I was impressed by the things that were important to him.
Family – Those of you in his family know how much he loved
and cared for you.
Friends – If you were a friend of Bear's he was very loyal
and would do anything he could for you.
If you were hurting, he
hurt with you.
Animals – Bear loved his wolves and went to great lengths to
take care of them. Proverbs 12:10 tells us that a righteous man cares for the needs of his animal.
Music – Everywhere Bear went he was known for his
music. Music was the breath of life to
him.
God – Bear loved God, and knew his Bible. He studied for himself, and didn’t let others
sway his convictions.
What also impressed me about Bear were the things that
weren’t important to him.
Material Things – Bear never sought after the wealth of the
world. The things that he did have he
would gladly give you if you were in need.
Acclaim – As great a musician as he was, Bear always wanted
to be in the background. He just wanted to be a part of the experience.
Shortly after hearing Friday morning that Bear had passed
away, I sat down and wrote these words and posted them on my blog.
Today my friend Larry "Bear" Barton passed away. I
can still remember the first day that he walked into church and into my life.
Bear was a big guy with a huge heart. Helping others was a priority for him.
When the company that he worked for began hiring a number of Spanish speaking
workers, Bear began learning Spanish so that he could talk better with them. He
became a friend and advocate for many. I'm sure that he will be sorely missed.
Bear's love and concern for others makes me think of the
text found in Matthew 25:37-40 "Lord, when did we see You hungry and feed
You, or thirsty and give You drink? When did we see You a stranger and take You
in, or naked and clothe You? Or when did we see You sick, or in prison, and
come to You?’ And the King will answer and say to them, ‘Assuredly, I say to
you, inasmuch as you did it to one of the least of these My brethren, you did
it to Me." That is the way Bear lived.
One of my favorite memories of Bear was attending his 50th
birthday party. I have never been to a birthday party like it. Richie Owens and
Bear have been playing music together for over 15 years. Bear is a harmonica
player extraordinaire. Richie rented the Ouachita Little Theater, and invited
many musicians that he and Bear had played with over the years to come and jam.
Richie projected video on stage of Bear playing with a
number of different musicians, with some of the video being a number of years
ago. We enjoyed seeing Bear with hair.
The party lasted until late into the evening. It was after 10:00 when the jam session
ended, and then I enjoyed getting to visit with Bear for a while. I am happy
that I got to be with him at his birthday party.
Today the world lost a truly wonderful person; Someone who
was always helping people and loved everyone. Goodbye and rest in peace my
precious friend Larry "Bear" Barton, you will be missed by to many to
count.
I was amazed by the fact that over 550 people read this post
online, showing that Bear was loved by
so many.
I want to read one of the comments that was posted by Carol
Hunter Southwick of New Jersey
My cousin Bear Barton was born with a tender heart, which
only deepened and expanded throughout his too short stay on this earth. He was
born caring - about animals, who are easy to love, and about people, who are
not.
He was a healer, who knew how to come alongside those who
were hurting and listen, and gently guide, and he would tell you straight up
what he felt you needed to hear...and then again, if you needed reminding.
He healed his wolves, cooking special meals for them,
patiently nursing them through injuries and illnesses, never neglecting their
needs, even though it could be totally time consuming sometimes.
And he mentored so many young people, keeping them
accountable, being the one who cared whether they messed up their lives, and
encouraging them to give life another chance.
When I heard the doctors' diagnosis: heart failure, I had to
disagree. Bear's heart didn't fail. Bear's heart triumphed, and this often
bitter and despairing world will never be the same because of him.
I appreciate reading what you had to say about him, and
especially the text from St. Matthew.
I have to agree with Carol.
Bear's heart didn't fail. Bear's heart triumphed, and this often bitter
and despairing world will never be the same because of him. Bear’s big heart touched so many of us.
In Thessalonians 4: 13-18 The Bible tells us; "But I do not want you to be ignorant, brethren, concerning
those who have fallen asleep, lest you sorrow as others who have no hope. For
if we believe that Jesus died and rose again, even so God will bring with Him
those who sleep in Jesus. For this we
say to you by the word of the Lord, that we who are alive and remain until the
coming of the Lord will by no means precede those who are asleep. For the Lord Himself will descend from heaven with a shout,
with the voice of an archangel, and with the trumpet of God. And the dead in
Christ will rise first. Then we who are alive and remain shall be caught up
together with them in the clouds to meet the Lord in the air. And thus we shall
always be with the Lord. Therefore comfort one another with these words".
Bear is sleeping, waiting for the trumpet of God, waiting
for his Lord to return, waiting to meet him in the air; to always be with the
Lord. Let’s take comfort in this
promise.
Here is music that was played at the memorial WAYFARING STRANGER - BEAR BARTON, HARP AND RICHIE OWENS, GUITAR AND VOCALS
AMAZING GRACE - BEAR BARTON, HARP AND RICHIE OWNS, GUITAR AND VOCALS
R.I.P. Bear Barton ... Or leap with Joy of your victory over this Life forever free now ...I did not know you but your dear friend Richard has painted you with such caring words that my heart grew fond of you as I read his blog...Welcome Home Brother!
ReplyDeleteRest In Peace, Cousin Bear Barton. I'm so thankful that my children got to spend time with you in Mena after the Harrison Family Reunion.
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